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Be kind to others is not ‘good’ anymore in our society nowadays. By being kind, people can judge you as fake hope giver a.k.a. php: pemberi harapan palsu. It is a very popular label nowadays, means that you give hope or sign (esp. in the context of man-woman relationship) to someone when you’re actually not thinking about relationship. By being kind, people can think that you have some ulterior motives behind your behaviour.

Blame me, for being raised and grew up in a community where people are really kind just because they think that kindness is the way people should treat others as their brothers and sisters. I still remember my senior picked me up in the middle of the night when I just arrived in a bus terminal. Not only me, but he also treat others like that.

Call me stupid, because I still think that the world I live in now is still the same. Nope, I was wrong.

Accuse me as a php, just because i think that be kind is the only way i suppose to treat others. Maybe i’ll get hurt for some time hearing those harsh words. But, time will heals, right?

Still be kind, anyway. Let me rephrase Mother Teressa’s words for you.

For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

~ selitando ~
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3 comments on “PHP

  1. rNest
    January 15, 2014

    sabar ya sel. heu.
    iya, ternyata keramahan dan kebaikan ngga selalu dipandang sebagai sesuatu yang normal, yang seharusnya emang dilakukan tiap orang dengan tulus. :-/
    the challenge is to still be it, no matter what people say. karena itu yang dimau Tuhan. >.<

  2. anggriawan
    January 16, 2014

    anggap aja bukan kamu yg ‘php’, tapi mereka yg ke-‘ge-er’-an 😉

  3. xand3r
    January 19, 2014

    Kalo menurut gw sih yak sel, lo sih gak salah. Dalam kasus php, yg salah tuh korbannya. Salah sendiri ngarep. Masalah lo mau berbuat baik, itu urusan elo, bkn orang lain, org lain yg salah mengartikan ya itu urusan mereka bukan urusan elo. Lo punya porsi punya lo, mereka punya porsi mereka. Jangan serakah makan porsi orang aja ;p

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